Thinking that I can't do it, is something many go through. The imposter syndrome is mostly combated by preparation and preparation again. We do need to allow ourselves to go through some hard times because we need time to grow. The world isn't made in one day, we are here now because of centuries of growth, suffering, wars, disaster and loss, and learning how to keep the world safe and better. And so is it with your life. We have to allow ourselves to suffer for quite some time. Before we get out and can create something nice and good.

Say; 5 years in the same job, or 5 years learning a new job. Success isn't done in one year. If you think you can do it after just one year, you going to be hit with the imposter syndrome. To stay grounded by all wind and weather is to get through the hard times.

Preparation is the golden tool you have to access, if not things can go wrong, or you end up sick with fear. If you go too fast you can end up in quicksand.

I know what it means when we feel hindered. When the family and friends ignore your plight to change your future. When they are embroiled in their own personal wars and have you drawn into.

When parents get divorced, when friends think your ideas are too far over the top. When you haven't done anything regarding! Then it's getting time to work hard and work double and prepare. Earn the money to pay for small courses or for private teachers. And perhaps you can involve your friends and family. This time of preparation, of working double shifts in order to pay for the little expensive courses or to buy the tools, is worth gold, and your ticket to your chosen future. You will meet lots of people who will not take you serious, but if you keep polite and forgiving. You teache them how things go in life. That you can teach at the end these people about how life really goes.


Try out free session Life Coaching consultation.


Tel: 07957564406


Birgit Beier 

It will be held via a video communication app

Start with a consultation that is free and lasts around 30 minutes, via telephone or skype.
Then make an appointment for at least one session, which is held as well via skype.


I have a LIFE COACHING qualification with High Merit

studied Psychology and Social Science, Youth Crime, HND

did an access course for Women in Media

and High Merit in Creative Writing

accreditation is coming

I grew up in, moving from city to city, changing schools because of the profession of my dad. We met lots of different children and it wasn't easy. I was in good cities and bad cities. There was jealousy and hatred, and great children's playtimes. On the same time I showed a lot of talents in art and classical ballet. I was the best in sport and used to explore the countryside with my close school friends. We used to walk through forests or drove with the bikes to the next villages. Then I experienced the divorce of my parents and think that women need to be empowered. Something I want to implement into the Life Coaching sessions.

Because of my early experiences in schools and with other children and as well with my mother, who was very strict; I was searching for dream careers and I had goals. Something living in the countryside in the 80's, wasn't people talked about. So I know how it is when you have to fight and when your family doesn't agree with you. When culture plays a role. I have learned a great deal from this and can pass this on. 

I read a lot of psychology books. I love these books. I read scientific and self-help books and discovered that you have to follow them, have to copy and analyze the texts, otherwise it is all for nothing!

I read religiously the Psychologie magazine.